At about 12:15, my precious Morris Cat passed away at the vet's office. His lungs were collapsed, and there was fluid surrounding them. His kidneys were failing, along with his heart. It is believed he had cancer as well. He lived a very good life. He had more love and attention than any other animal alive. When I brought him home from T.A Dugger Jr. High School, and saved him from an untimely death in March of 1998, it was me who was truly blessed. I had the "dream cat", that I had always wanted. He was orange, male, fat, and extremely loveable-- the cat I had ALWAYS wanted. Aunt Judy allowed me to bring him home on the condition we'd try to find his owners (despite that the Jr. High had tried for over a month to find them).
I readily agreed, and Morris rode home on my lap, looking out the window to the world. When he was safely at my aunt's house, I made a quick trip to Wal-Mart, buying him a cute collar, and an engraved name tag. Yep, it had his name, "Morris", and my home phone number on it, so he would be MINE, and there was no taking him away. I loved that cat with all my heart for the almost 9 years. He gave me so much love, comfort, and joy. He knew when I was sad, and when I was sick. He comforted me when I needed comfort, and love anytime I wanted and/or needed it. I'd never had an animal like him, and never will again. How can you top perfection?
I've included a picture of the urn we purchased today for him. I already knew when we went to the crematorium what I wanted. I had seen it years ago, when my beloved TJ passed. I went in today, knowing what I wanted, and came out with something completely different. I couldn't believe it. I believe Morris was telling me what he wanted. It's beautiful, and him. I've included a picture below. I also picked up a book that is helping so much. It's titled, "Do Pets Go To Heaven?", by Dennis Callen. It's so comforting, and just what I needed.
Thank you all for your loving words, thoughts and prayers. They mean so much right now during this difficult time. Much love!
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Oh I am so so so sorry for your loss. :( I don't know what else to say at a time like this. Words don't seem enough somehow.
I am thinking of you during this difficult time! Hugs!
Much love from the PNW-I hate loosing anything. You can come over and love up out marmalade "lion" and our bassett if it helps. Take care, and feel free to e-mail me!
I'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great cat.
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Awwww girl!! I am so sorry! Pets become family over time, this truly breaks my heart.
I loved Morris, he was and will always be adorable!
(((Hugs))) Hang in there!
I'm so sorry that he didn't make it. I know sometimes it's tougher when a pet dies because you are so close to them. I know he'll live on in your memory.
((hugs))
Morris isn't in any more pain or suffering. You will need time to heal and your strength will come from the oh SOOOO fond memories.
My cats are my kids with fur coats. I completely understand what you are feeling. If I can do ANYTHING don't hesitate to ask~
Peace n Love
Im so sorry Christy...I know it hurts to lose a loving pet. And you gave Morris such a wonderful life. I had a little yorkie for 14 years and when I put him down I cried so hard. I still think of him and miss him...he was so totally devoted to me..I truly loved him.
oh my, well i wasn't expecting this when i came here today, i'm terribly sorry for your loss and i'm teary just thinking about what you are going thru
just know we are here for you and time does heal all wounds :)
I am so sorry that you are grieving his loss, but glad that you had him in your life for nine years and that he enriched your life as you enriched his!
So sorry... *Hugs-a-bunch*
(((Christy)))
You have my deepest respect and love and compassion for Morris's passing. I know how much a friend can mean to all of us. Reach out, we will all hug you.
(((Christy))) I am so sorry!!! Pets are family too!I know how hard it's going to be. I still look around when I hear noises that my first pet Minikin (kitty)used to make. She passed away from kidney failure 12/28/03. Someone dear to me mailed me this (they edited to add Minikins pic underneath the title) and it helped me. To this day I have it framed and on my wall. Here it is: http://www.petloss.com/poems/maingrp/rainbowb.htm
I truly hope it helps you as much as it did for me. Morris will be in your heart forever!!!
HUGS!!!!
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Your memories of comfort and joy while having your cat will always be in your heart. You gave him love, happiness and the comforts of a nice home. It's just so sad that animals don't have a longer lifespan. After my dog passed, I never wanted another one. I can't do it. They're "family"...
(((Christy)))
My words just aren't good enough right now.
I'm sorry for your loss hun!
Smooches!
I'm so sorry about the passing of Morris. My thoughts are with you.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am blessed by being owned by several cats and I know how hard and painful this is. You remain in my thoughts and prayers. Jill
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sorry for your loss..i just went through the same exact thing with my toy poodle just before thanksgiving....
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So sad, he looked like a fun fat cat.
But I didnt know you could have your pets cremated(sp).
Just stopping by to check on you and how you are feeling today.
Much love!
Hugs sweetie! :) I know how hard it can be to lose a pet...they are part of the family.
Aww Christy I'm so sorry. I had another friend whose cat passed away yesterday. Maybe they will meet up in kitty heaven and play and lick each other clean :) Keep Morris alive in your memory.
-N
Oh, I was so sad to get on here this morning and read this!! I'm just praying that you get through this hard time!
Sounds like Morris was a WONDERFUL cat. You had him such a long time--wow!! You have wonderful memories of him; just remember to cherish those.
I love the urn. Beautiful!
I'm so sorry for the loss of your cat.I had a cat that looked just like him. His name was "Hutch"..( Yes, I loved the show, "Starsky and Hutch"..Had David Soul posters on my wall from Tiger Beat Magazine.).Ahh.. the memories..
Cats are so smart.. and independent. I'm so glad he had you..I'm sure he had a wonderful life with you.
**hugs**
Oh, sweetie! I am so sorry. I haven't been by in a few days and when I read this post, my heart just broke for you. I know how much you love your baby and I will keep you all in my thoughts.
HUGS and tons of love to you. Email if you need anything!
Sorry about your kitty.
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It sucks when pets die! Sorry! Hope you have a good weekend.
awwwwww I am sorry to hear about your cat I lost my dog and cat both in 2001 they had been with me my whole life so I know how hard it is.
I'm so sorry.....Hugs and Love sweetie.
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